Ok, please don't take this the wrong way and that I am trying to hit on you in anyway. I am 63, I have a live in caretaker because I am in such bad shape. I would have sworn you were in the same age range as my 30 year old son and my 27 year old daughter.
My 18 year old daughter lives with me most of the time but also lives with her mom whenever she wants. She likes living with me more than her mom because I have no problem with her boyfriend sleeping over when she wants and she can't do that at her moms because of her step dad is a much more religious type of person. Me, I am going straight to hell and have no problem with that. I remember when I was 18 and I refuse to be a hypocrite.
I was a big cigar smoker at one time. Here is a pic of my old humidor and my oldest daughter when she was like 2 or 3.