Right. Just because 12 year olds were once "considered" adults didn't make it any truer then than it is now. When was the last time you actually spoke to a 12 year old?
I'm not looking for an argument, olkofri. I genuinely do like you. There's just more to adulthood than base sexual maturity, like, you know- brain development and agency.
I'm not looking to argue either, Supperthyme, leastways not with you: the liking is mutual.
Full disclosure: I'm not comfortable around children. Yet, they seem to feel comfortable with me. Go figure. Maybe it's because I address them like adults, never change my voice to something sappy, and I never ever whatsoever tell them 'how tall you've grown!!" Truth is, children wanna be grown-ups! One of the quickest ways to rile me up real serious when I was in my one-digit years was to call me a child (even though I was obviously one).
Yes. There's more to adulthood than just being able to procreate. And that's precisely my preoccupation with current people: by treating them like children we are stunting their pychological and spiritual growth. On one hand, you have parents kicking their children out of the house as soon as they finish high school with the argument that they need to learn to look after themselves, become independent; yet, on the other hand you have the same parents driving their children to perpetual infantilism by their own immature approach to parenting. This has created no small nor few problems in to-day's milieu: young adults who can't own up to their mistakes, who can't hold a job, who can't relate properly to others, who can't be responsible, who can't deal with relationships, who think nothing is for keeps, who feel entitled... and the list goes on.
I'm not trying to be a pharisee here, pointing out others' shortcomings to make myself feel good. Trust me, I'm genuinely worried. I care about my country, my society, and my fellow citizens. I see these attitudes are not doing them any good and much harm; ergo I speak.