Honest Question: Why do we Care what a Smoker calls Himself?

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sleepy57

Starting to Get Obsessed
Jan 28, 2021
105
172
Spring Hill, Florida
We all have our little quirks. I am quite annoyed by the words "dawdle," "cattywompus/cattywampus" and the phrase "kitty corner" so don't think I am trying to pick on anyone's personal irritations...we all have them.

However, it seems that some are outwardly irritated by what a pipe smoker calls themselves. "Piper" gets some of us rather upset while "pipester" made some of us have an absolute fit, even though we got over it. "Puffer" gets a small amount of irritation and "addict" tends to make many of us mildly perturbed.

Why do we actually care about what we are called based on our pipe smoking? Personally, It's one of those things where I pick the hill I want to die on. When someone calls me a shortened version of my name, no worries. I usually prefer my full first name unless you are my wife or a friend of some sort but won't make a big deal if someone uses Dave instead of David.

So, no judgement here (see my first statement) but what makes you have an irritation reaction big enough to speak out against what you are called as a pipe smoker? On the other hand, what makes you the other way where you may be irritated by an epithet based on your pipe smoking but have no reaction to it?
giving ones self a rank really pisses me off!
 

jpmcwjr

Lifer
May 12, 2015
26,262
30,395
Carmel Valley, CA
“piper” sounds to me like something a person who likes to be silly would say. I don’t like silliness, generally, but my profession makes my name too perfect to pass up.
Some fine folks have used that term, no harm, no foul.

What is your profession, and where do you hang your hat?

Please put your location in your Profile, as people are forgetful.
Why:
That will save questions in the future as to where you live when you later mention local stores, weather, tobacco prices, availability, regulations, location of photos, wildfires, air quality, etc. In many instances that saves time for those who read your posts. It cuts down on posts or PMs asking where you are.
How:
Under your avatar, (top right, left most of three symbols) you choose "Account Details", which brings up "My Account". "My Location" is halfway down. Whatever you're comfortable with- town, city, county, state. province, etc.
 

lawdawg

Lifer
Aug 25, 2016
1,792
3,812
"Hi, I'm a piper who is new to the hobby."

I think we tend to dislike "piper" for the same reason we dislike "hobby." It's a similar issue to the thread the other day about pipe smoking in conversation as being the focus of the conversation, or just something men do during conversations about other things. "Piper" and the pipe smoking "hobby" just imply a bit too much navel gazing about the whole pipe smoking thing. A pipe smoker is a guy who smokes a pipe. Saying you're a "piper" is more like wearing pipe smoking as an identity. It starts to get a little hipstery and too self-conscious.

I get that the dislike of "piper" and "hobby" is a bit ironic given that we are all here as members of a forum specifically to discuss pipes and tobacco, but nevertheless, I dislike the terms.
 

mso489

Lifer
Feb 21, 2013
41,211
60,666
Pure surmise (guessing) that foot feed might date back to when the accelerator on some automobiles was on the steering column, so when it was a novelty to have it put in a pedal on the floor, that might have been a foot feed, feeding the fuel by foot. My grandmother called children's tricycles velocipedes, which was an established word in her younger years.
 

wyfbane

Lifer
Apr 26, 2013
5,883
8,107
Tennessee
1. You can callme anything you like, just don't call me late to dinner... :col:

2. Re: "Pipers". They play an instrument, and should be allowed to retain their title imho.

3. JPMCWJR's pet peeve is people not keeping their locations updated or not having one. I know this from personal experience when I didn't update my location to Tennessee in a timely manner.

4. Many of you who are a tad more persnickety when it comes to fringe terms would likely be annoyed by me in person (if not on here already). I use lots of 'out there' terms. I used ginormous before it was in the dictionary. I use dodad, thingie, thingiemabob, because my ADHD moves my brain too fast to think of the exact name so it has 'catchall' terms when i am rolling with an idea. I use the term hiv (pronouced as a word, not an acronym) when I am really sick. "Don't come near me, I have the hiv!" Army people got it. My first year teaching the students were like, 'HE'S GOT AIDS!' lol Took some adjustment.

5. First time I've ever been in after the lock! Wheeeeeeee!!!
 

sablebrush52

The Bard Of Barlings
Jun 15, 2013
21,630
53,022
Southern Oregon
jrs457.wixsite.com
Anyhoo- (just to irritate someone!) this has been an unusual thread, and already one bloke has overreacted. Sadly, somewhat, I am closing it. But not before I say I dislike the term "lunting" in all forms- I Lunt, you Lunt, we Lunt, etc.. But not enough to have ever said so. Nor have an aneurysm over it; just hoping another term is accepted.
I lunt all the time. Lunt Lunt Lunt Lunt Lunt Lunt Lunt Lunt Lunt Lunt Lunt Lunt Lunt Lunt Lunt Lunt Lunt! Just make sure you use the L when typing.

Pipe smoker is clumsy. Piper brings up images of hale bearded fellows wearing skirts and leaving their jewels exposed to freeze and fall off in the cold. Pipester is a bit close to hipster.

In short, they're equally sucky, so I just accept them all to the same mixed extent.