ATTENTION ALL MALES.....I am in Need of Advice

[smokey789]

Yeah, but talk about hamming it up in the image. Sheesh, why bother. Just get her an icecream and she will be happy and leave you to smoke your pipe and sip your bourbon in peace. lol

 

[samuelgawith01]

You're being ridiculous unless you have a reasonable chance you'll want more children. You won't feel any different 7 days after the procedure than you do 7 days before it.

Here's the biggest (or smallest) concern you should have. In most cases, there is a knock dead gorgeous nurse assisting the Doctor with the procedure. If that excites you and you happen to, let's say rise to the occasion, and she starts giggling (or even an outright horse laugh), you may find that a bit embarrassing. If you sense that starting to happen, close your eyes and imagine smoking a bowl of Erinmore while holding hands with Nancy Pelosi. Problem solved!

Would that Erinmore Ready Rubbed????????or Flake?just wondering.

 

[smokey789]

Nancy knows her booze. That's for sure.

 

[3rdguy]

@3rdguy I thought this ad was directed towards you!

I wonder the search terms used to find that!

 

[Country Bladesmith]

I wonder the search terms used to find that!

He had it bookmarked! ?

 

[Richmond B. Funkenhouser]

Nancy knows her booze. That's for sure.

And her pills..

 

[gervais]

What happened? Did you decide for or against? How is everything going. My personal opinion, had I seen this earlier, would have been to suggest you need to speak with you urologist and with a counselor. This fear is in you. Each of us is different and what one can do, does not mean all can do. There is no test of manliness in it. There are good reasons for and against and the decision is solely yours. I believe you cannot make a decision that is this anxiety inducing for you unless you have all the facts and consequences.

I decided to cancel the appointment. I figured that since I was on the edge and had some doubt, that's it made more sense to not do it

 

[mso489]

Makes sense to me. You and your wife can settle on another contraceptive option, and at mid-life, you won't have to worry about it anyway. Also, fertility declines with age anyway, to help you out. If you rethink it over time, it is still an option.

 

[Richmond B. Funkenhouser]

I decided to cancel the appointment. I figured that since I was on the edge and had some doubt, that's it made more sense to not do it

Good job.

 

[lawdawg]

I decided to cancel the appointment. I figured that since I was on the edge and had some doubt, that's it made more sense to not do it

Good call! I'm going to take the unpopular route here and say that there is a damned good reason for all the "perceived" loss of virility or masculinity that goes along with the snip. Men are very lucky to be able to father healthy children at pretty much any age, and I do not think that's something to give up under any circumstance. Depending on your wife or girlfriend's age, it's very unlikely that she's going to get pregnant anyhow , and you never know what the future will hold.

 

[Richmond B. Funkenhouser]

I love my wife, I would do anything for my her and my son. The truth is.. I make plenty of sacrifices for them, and I do it lovingly. Not that one though.. It's unnecessary and over the line.

 

[Old School 3319]

I had mine done 8 years ago. Its not bad but there are some drawback. When i had mine done i worked on the factory floor and about a year after i got Epididmitis. horrible pain come to find out alot of guys who have a vasectomy get it. If you do change your mind be sure that you get the tighty whitey underwear. I didnt and pulled my groin muscle and was out for a few more days. Also be sure you get checked after cause mine was not successful. I am still loaded and ready to fire

 

[Richmond B. Funkenhouser]

Plus, whether she knows it or not.. I'm willing to bet she'd rather you didn't.

 

[condorlover1]

I am glad that all worked out. I see lots of 'hand parties' in your future. Its the fun type of birth control!

 

[smokey789]

Plus, whether she knows it or not.. I'm willing to bet she'd rather you didn't.

Ever notice how their friends can give them brilliant ideas that the push onto their husband? So sweet of them to want to help.

 

[Richmond B. Funkenhouser]

Ever notice how their friends can give them brilliant ideas that the push onto their husband? So sweet of them to want to help.

My wife and I don't play that game. We accept zero outside advice on our marriage... my first wife had friends like that though, that's some ugly shit.

 

[smokey789]

My wife and I don't play that game. We accept zero outside advice on our marriage... my first wife had friends like that though, that's some ugly shit. Haha

I had two like that. I thought it was in the dna. lmao

 

[Richmond B. Funkenhouser]

I had two like that. I thought it was in the dna. lmao

Nah, there are good ones out there. Haha but it might be like hitting the lottery...

 

[stevecourtright]

You have lots of advice here so I will just say that it takes a real and confident man to admit and share your concerns. Kudos

 

[gervais]

Well I appreciate everyone's 2 cents on the matter. It put alot of things in perspective for me