boot', you have a great attitude, sustaining all the good memories and feelings. We're lucky who've had good partners, even when they leave too soon. I lost my late wife in 2000, and it was an unusually long process to get through it, though I just kept working, doing some traveling for work and for recreation. Eventually, I heard from a long-time friend I'd met when I was 19, and in 2010 we were married. It took me a long time, and I had some unhappy relationships with some really good women, but I wasn't ready, and neither were they. With two intense and fascinating women as wives, I feel lucky in love -- no regrets. Take your time.