Thanks again guys.
Al, the officer took the tamp and put it in the "weapons" receptical tube thing. I did ask for it back as we were leaving, in my best well mannered Southern boy way, asked the new officer on duty if he mighy retrieve it for me. He just stood there like a statue with no personality or emotion at all.
Eh, I will make me a new one. I need to make some more anyways. I usually will make something nice for myself with scrap gold, because if I turn it in to reclaim it, it hurts me come tax time. Better to just have it hanging around as something that I can use. I wouldn't chose to make a gold tamper out of pocket. But, if the gold is there, and its in the form of a tamp... well... I'll use it.
The boy's dad is getting a lawyer. Since the burden of the bill is on him anyway, we will juat back him in his fight against the drunk driver. Better than getting another lawyer in the mudpit.
So far, just getting caught up on sleep an hour at a time.