22 years so far. All great advice above. Remember you two are a team, not two people sharing a house. Decide what you want to accomplish together in life. That will help eliminate a lot of issues. Go on dates regularly. Everytime we leave the house together, without the kids, it is a date! We will have a grocery date as soon as she gets fully awake, dressed, and had breakfast (might not be in that order).
If you only get one thing out of this thread, remember she is desperate to be loved. She NEEDS TO BE ABSOLUTELY CONVINCED THAT SHE IS NUMBER ONE IN YOUR LIFE WITH NO RIVALS!. Obviously this included the cute girl at the office or on the computer screen, your truck, your job, your time, your hobbies (pipes?) etc. Nothing is more important in your life than her. Of course women realize you need to earn a living. What will be the results? When her girl friends are bashing their men, she will brag about you. Wait until the first time she tells you, "You are my hero!"
This works.
Winton