Thank you for the expressions of sympathy. I surely do not want to see a thread of this importance, to me anyway, sidetracked. Sufficed to say my wife and I had 36 years and 5 days of mostly great times together. I am adjusting to what is my "new normal" and will carry on as she would have wished.
Relative to the OP I do believe that it is the differences between the partners that can make the marriage really interesting and special. My hobby is woodworking. My wife was an excellent "beader" and a more than competent metal-smith. We each had our own work areas and so, had our own "space." Sometimes she needed my expertise or "eye" and other times I would solicit her artistic abilities to provide some bit of metal work that provided the proper "finish" to a project of mine.
Marriage is all about balance. Time together + time apart = a great ride with few bumps and fewer regrets.
I and the others speak only from our own experiences and I'm sure my observations are a somewhat skewed by my years of mostly pure unadulterated happy companionship and love. So read the thread, see what fits or can be adapted to your circumstances and make fond memories every chance you get.
Relative to the OP I do believe that it is the differences between the partners that can make the marriage really interesting and special. My hobby is woodworking. My wife was an excellent "beader" and a more than competent metal-smith. We each had our own work areas and so, had our own "space." Sometimes she needed my expertise or "eye" and other times I would solicit her artistic abilities to provide some bit of metal work that provided the proper "finish" to a project of mine.
Marriage is all about balance. Time together + time apart = a great ride with few bumps and fewer regrets.
I and the others speak only from our own experiences and I'm sure my observations are a somewhat skewed by my years of mostly pure unadulterated happy companionship and love. So read the thread, see what fits or can be adapted to your circumstances and make fond memories every chance you get.