To OP:
Have you ever taken a ride in a New York City subway? Piss.... the watching of a feral animal take one, or, smelling the stale results....would be the least of ones problems.
But seriously...those days of mutual respect and civility towards neighbors and others, have long been wiped off the map. Today, by our laws, everything must be tolerated. Today, everything and anything, including challenges, can quickly degenerate into a hostile confrontation. Noise and behavioral ordinances, even if they still exist, are mostly ignored by legal/illegal "citizens" and, police. A truly disgusting, and most base, way to live.
However, I feel your pain. But, I live in NYC. So, any tiny spark -that once brightly glowed within me- of the expectation of civility has been extinguished from my DNA, decades ago.
Hoping your problems come to an end.