First of all just want to say thanks for all the replies. With so many choices out there it helps that someone mentioned to stay away from glocks, enough to narrow my choices down at least a little. I agree the safety is a little strange.
To reiterate, like I've said earlier in the thread, I do plan on going to the range to learn as much as I can. It's not like I was going to take a tally and go out and buy _____
Just wanted to get some suggestion for a starting point at what to look at and any other suggestions you all could provide. Which you did. Thanks again.
To expand on my very little experience, like I've said my father was an advocate. He had a 12g O/U and took me trap shooting. He was an elk hunter, but lost his guns before I was old enough go. I have fired his 30.06 a few times though. I've shot bottles and cans with .22's. He had a Luger that I never got a chance to shoot, but I helped him clean it. I don't feel entirely ignorant but can readily admit to having little experience.
Like I said never been hunting but the suggestion sounds like good advice. I have friends who hunt. Never gutted big game but I've cleaned birds and can filet a fish with a sharp rock
As far as the family goes my girlfriend of 1 year has 2 boys and suggested getting a shotgun. It is something we plan on eventually getting, but recently learning about her openness to firearms, and me now having something worth protecting, and with the news of coming legislation prompted me to start a thread on my favorite forum to see what you fine folks have to say.
We plan on going to the range tomorrow and renting a few models. Will keep anyone interested posted.