Ain't NO manly man eats the kind of limp-wristed sugary cereal you dump in a bowl straight from the box. Nossir.
Milk or no milk, it don't matter... Ya gotta COOK that shit, Jack.
And I don't mean none 'a that "quick cook" crap, neither. I mean for half an hour. In a pot. With stirrin' and like that. Then scrape it into a heavy crock bowl.
(What's this world comin' to, anyway?)
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