Phil, you nailed it my friend!! We all have failings that are hidden and would cause similar eruptions from the public if we were of significant notoriety.
There is not doubt what has been declared is bad behavior, but to assert that these men have absolute flaws and souls that are lost is not in alignment with my beliefs and I'd like to think I'm a good guy who is flawed as the next person is. See their movies, don't their his movies, but please see them as a brother under the inspection of the maker, as we all are.
Peck, dear sweet man, you are so on target....grace be given and grace shall be received. Who in this world does not fall short, redemption can be for every man or woman.