WTF do Parents Think? Rant!

[captainsousie]

My mom kept us home instead of bringing us to Grandma's house when we were sick. My grandma lived alone and didn't make much money. A couple days off meant choosing between food and medicine for the month. Old fashioned, I know, but respect and caring for the elderly is too.

Off topic, I still remember killing hundreds of wandering garter snakes on her property to keep her house from getting fully infested.

 

[Steddy]

I was raised in my Grandparent’s home and may God help you if you coughed or sneezed at the dinner table without covering your mouth! I can see my Grandfather’s face now, “ I worked my ass off to buy this food and your Grandmother worked hard to prepare dinner. You will not disrespect it by coughing all over it.”

If you had to blow your nose that was done after you got up and left the room.

 

[Speak Easy]

You really should expand your social horizons.

I’ve tried. I’ll pass. Thanks

 

[HawkeyeLinus]

We were never ones to knowingly take our kids to anyone's house if they were contagious with anything or symptoms at either end that might be considered too much to put upon someone else -- but always a matter of degree. Probably wouldn't be too excited if someone brought a sick kid for dinner that's coughing and whatever all over the place --- if it was that bad, I have no doubt my wife would deftly handle it and a special table for the kid and whatever parent wanted to join it would appear with no hint of stigma and she'd make sure I kept my mouth shut, lol.

 

[telescopes]

To @Sigmund 's point, the issue really begins with one of entitlement. Today's children and their parents were raised in a time when one does not have to consider common courtesy or any viewpoints that might require someone to think of someone other than themselves. The attitude of "anything for the children" boils down to the children as "anything for me".

The issue isn't that we don't value our elders; I believe the issue is that we over value our children at the expense of our elders. Young life is important and definitely needs to be nourished. But older life is just as precious and no less valuable. The elderly may no longer be able to reproduce, but what they have to offer is no less valuable - but in today's society, it is a commodity that is deemed worthless and one that impinges on the perceived overvaluing of youth.

The elderly are dismissed, mocked, seen as obstacles, and described with numerous pejoratives that would be called out immediately if they were used to describe any other group.

It's not that family isn't important. It is. But respect and value goes both ways and sadly, our society has chosen to make this a oneway street when it comes to children versus older adults.

 

[karam]

I think the biggest problem is showing up without invitation or calling ahead. I don’t care if you’re young and snotty or old and crotchety. Don’t show up at my house without letting me know at least 30 mins to an hour in advance or you will not like how you’re welcomed.

That's me. I will help anyone coming to me for help, even grudgingly, but I react badly to unannounced frivolous guests, no matter who they may be.

 

[kcghost]

If there over at your house you can say something to the parents if you wish. You probably won't see the parents or kids for long time but that's the way it goes.

 

[Richmond B. Funkenhouser]

I guess if the germs scare you, you could always wear one of those cotton garments over your nose and mouth... Or on your chin.

They probably have some new shots for you to test your luck with. Those are safe and effective.

I got all my lernin from facebook.

 

[didimauw]

That's me. I will help anyone coming to me for help, even grudgingly, but I react badly to unannounced frivolous guests, no matter who they may be.

Plain old Unannounced guests are literally the worst thing ever. I don't care who they are. I get grumpy when people just show up.

 

[Zero]

Plain old Unannounced guests are literally the worst thing ever. I don't care who they are. I get grumpy when people just show up.

I totally agree. I mean, you could be getting some mud for your turtle or somethin'...how rude. At least give a heads up.

 

[didimauw]

I totally agree. I mean, you could be getting some mud for your turtle or somethin'...how rude. At least give a heads up.

Like you took the words right out of my mouth....

I actually don't even really like it when people ask to come over first. I'm just grumpy either way.

 

[Zero]

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[Simmerdown☕️]

I have 11 & 9 year old boys. Both the wife and I would not knowing bring them to family functions if we knew they were sick. It’s just good sense and usually people appreciate it. ️

 

[Zero]

I was raised in my Grandparent’s home and may God help you if you coughed or sneezed at the dinner table without covering your mouth! I can see my Grandfather’s face now, “ I worked my ass off to buy this food and your Grandmother worked hard to prepare dinner. You will not disrespect it by coughing all over it.”

If you had to blow your nose that was done after you got up and left the room.

I got popped upside the head if I accidentally scraped the fork or spoon against my teeth Thanks for the flashbacks

 

[captainsousie]

I mean, you could be getting some mud for your turtle or somethin'

I had to look that one up. Not as bad as looking up "munting" but I still need a little bleach for my mind's eye.

 

[Zero]

I had to look that one up. Not as bad as looking up "munting" but I still need a little bleach for my mind's eye.

I've always understood "getting mud for your turtle" as slang for getting laid. Now I see that there are some other definitions out there, yikes Munting is just plain gross, but Tom Petty makes necrophilia look entertaining...

 

[FLDRD]

Well I just learned a couple o' somethings I didn't really need to know.

The price of wisdom...

 

[FLDRD]

I've always understood "getting mud for your turtle" as slang for getting laid. Now I see that there are some other definitions out there, yikes Munting is just plain gross, but Tom Petty makes necrophilia look entertaining...

Liked the song but never saw the video before. It does not match in any way, shape or form, the pictures my mind created to go with the song.

 

[Richmond B. Funkenhouser]

What is getting mud for your turtle? I aint googling that crap.

 

[brian64]

What is getting mud for your turtle? I aint googling that crap.

Me neither...but I wasn't even going to ask.