Then you must grant that the boss is entitled to can you if he chooses if your "approach" doesn't match his/her standards. You feel a job is all about you and your feelings. I feel just the opposite, the employer sets the standards, not the employee.
I agree, the employer does set the standards for his or her operation. The employee chooses to work there or not. If they choose to work there then they meet the standards set or they are let go.
In regard to feelings and my point of view of a job being all about me, yeah you’re damn right it is. I don’t know when the last time you were out in the work force but today’s environment demands that a person engage in self preservation. The social contract between labor and capitol is severely frayed and those people who give 100 percent loyalty to a company are foolish to do so.
In 2008 I got laid off after years of being a loyal employee, working long hours without days off because I was committed to the firm I worked for. Almost everyone was. The owners told all of us that if we worked hard the company would ensure we were taken care of when times got tough. Well when times got rough I spent a day helping my colleagues pack up their offices as they were let go until it was just me and my boss and my boss helping me pack up my office.
Later on a few years down the road after completing my graduate studies after pivoting my career during the Great Recession I was managing a department spread across a number of locations when the firm I worked for merged with a larger law firm. One of the employees who worked for me was concerned she was going to lose her job and I told her that if she was worried she might want to look into finding work elsewhere. Sge was a good loyal employee but having only a high school diploma and no real office tech skills, she was disposable. Eventually she decided to stay telling me that since she had been a loyal employee for over a decade they would take care of her. Two months later the new firm canned her (I had no input on her termination, she got a phone call from St. Louis and was escorted out on a day I had off. It wasn’t a great situation and she wasn’t the only one to be let go).
In the modern world a person has to look out for themselves and make sure the work they put in to their job is quality. Everyone is expendable and the only loyalty companies have towards anyone is to ownership and the shareholders. Loyalty to a company is about as outdated as the dinosaurs.