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indianafrank

Part of the Furniture Now
Oct 15, 2014
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On the cruise ship there were designated smoking areas, just a few, top side 3rd deck, outside. Everywhere else was "No Smoking" with clear signs stating such.
My wife and I were at the pool, 2nd deck. Sitting 3 deck chairs from me was a woman smoking. She sat directly in front of the "No Smoking" sign. Being one who recognizes the right to smoke has been violated over the years, but yet I follow the laws/rules via smoking, I expect that other smokers do the same. So I politely told the woman she was smoking in a "No Smoking" area, and I pointed to the sign behind her, just in case she overlooked it. She gave me a shitty look, and took another puff. Two more times I politely asked her if she understood the sign, she was of Spanish decent and speaking Spanish to a woman next to her. I was not sure if she understood the sign. I was giving her the benefit of doubt. She continued giving me that nasty look, all the while puffing away. My wife saw that I was beginning to get a bit angered over the insolence of this woman and told me to never mind, and sit down. We would have moved to another area, but all of the deck chairs by the pool were taken.
In a few moments the woman and her friend walked away. About ten minutes later security walks over to me, the smoking woman was with him. He asked me if I had told the woman to stop smoking. I said I did. He told me that was not the proper thing to do and that I should have instead told security. He then told me that my wife and i had to move away from where the woman was sitting. I almost blew a gasket. I said to the security guy. "I'm not the one smoking in a non designated area. Why should I move?" This time he said that the woman thought I was being racist, and even if I was not, he could not take any chances.
My wife and I had to leave the pool side because there were no chairs available. And the smoking woman went back to her comfortable lounge chair.

 

drwatson

Lifer
Aug 3, 2010
1,721
7
toledo
+1..I think being a person myself who doesn't like people telling me what to do, or not do (as far as smoking) I think I would have just lit up too.

 

pipebaum81

Part of the Furniture Now
Nov 23, 2014
669
235
Being one who recognizes the right to smoke has been violated over the years, but yet I follow the laws/rules via smoking, I expect that other smokers do the same.
@indiana, this intrigues me. In no way do I think you wanted to anything but uphold the rules, I am curious though why you as a smoker would want to enforce this particular rule.
As far as the way YOU were treated I would be on the phone and writing letters to the cruise company.

 

torque

Can't Leave
May 21, 2013
445
2
Sounds like the cruise was getting to you.
I would have left her alone and fired up my pipe...
Agreed, I would have let her alone and minded my own business.

 

wyfbane

Lifer
Apr 26, 2013
5,486
5,405
Tennessee
Dude, your life is all drama.
You can't go to the supermarket without some random near violence happening to you.
My ex wife was like that. Near fights, verbal altercations all the time.
You dont have any branches of your family down in Leesville, LA do you? You two could be related...
Your wife is a saint.
Lol

 

dochudson

Lifer
May 11, 2012
1,635
12
if it was the other way around you guys would be throwing a fit.. security on cruise ships put up with very little. who knows what the ladies told him.

 

escioe

Part of the Furniture Now
Oct 31, 2013
702
4
1. There's a reason David Foster Wallace's essay about cruises is called A Supposedly Fun Thing I'll Never Do Again.

2. I get that she was breaking the rules, but my initial reaction is to mind my own business unless I was being really, really bothered by it. Maybe you were.

 

wyfbane

Lifer
Apr 26, 2013
5,486
5,405
Tennessee
Doc, make no mistake, he was right to be pissed and I think the security guard was an asshat.
I just had to point out this was like the 4th or 5th crazed story about security, law enforcement, psycho park ladies, etc.
They are an entertaining read, no doubt.

 

ivapewithfire

Starting to Get Obsessed
Nov 26, 2014
268
0
West Virginia, USA
You are a better man than I am.
In my old world, a swift throat chop would have been involved.
Now that I look more like Santa Claus than Chris Hemsworth (according to people.com he was sexiest man alive for 2014), I probably would sit back and just let my mind scream things like "throat chop both of those dumb@$$3%%".
What happened to you is all the way wrong in my opinion, but I've come to a place in my life where I've learned what battles are worth fighting.

 

mso489

Lifer
Feb 21, 2013
41,211
60,650
indianafrank, some people are made for cruises and others shouldn't do it. I think I may be in that latter

category, and I believe you may be too. Maybe next time, a road trip to a National Park in the off season,

or a rental cabin far from the nearest town. The beach in the winter is nice. Lots of wind and birds, and

few people. And good seafood.

 

surlysoul

Might Stick Around
Jan 22, 2013
96
0
I would have minded my own business and enjoyed the cruise rather than trying to babysit others.

 

dochudson

Lifer
May 11, 2012
1,635
12
I've done a couple Caribbean cruises.. OK, but boring and mostly just a huge party boat. Cruised the Med last fall from Barcelona to Turkey with 12 stops. Absolutely outstanding. Cruise ships usually suck for piping with the weather the the CC's I picked up in Barcelona were outstanding. We liked it so much that this spring will took the same ship from NOLA back to Barcelona. Smoking allowed on one side of ship including the pool area and the casino plus the fancy night club at the top of the ship after 11pm.

 

toby67

Can't Leave
Sep 30, 2014
413
1
Australia
What amazes me it that the woman doing the wrong thing won the day, I wonder what she really told the security guard.

 
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