I was thinking of Harris this past week. I never found him abrasive as I enjoyed how he spoke his mind. I think he was often a bit abrasive here to "bust balls". Harris was a great friend and I miss our regular get togethers here in Sarasota. He provided more laughs for me than any other person I've ever met.
I will tell a Harris story. Around 20 years ago, we met up with 2 other Cigar Family friends to attend a herf in Rockford. After partying rather heavily the previous night, we were wolfing down breakfast at an IHOP when this moron manager came over, interrupted us and started trying to be funny by telling really lame jokes. Harris never looked up, just kept eating, After about a minute of the stupidity, again, without looking up, Harris said "Get the Fuck out of here". The delivery was priceless, I spit a mouthful of pancake out on my plate. Vintage Harris.