Very few addicts of any kind handle the confrontation with truth well. It is a normal response. Really, addiction is a fascinating topic that is absolutely worth reading a book or two on. You may even develop a little bit of compassion for the heroin junkie breaking into your car at night. Maybe.
We will pick apart anything to find humour, logical fallacies, anecdotes and any number of other coping mechanisms to deal with an (often) unpleasant reality. Most addicts are simply untruthful (again, a classic response to which I am also guilty) and I suspect a majority of people on this very forum have attempted to break their addiction at least once. The rest are probably liars.
My best guess about forum member turnover is that many members either die or quit.
Being addicted to something doesn't make you weak. You are just an addict. As we all are.
If you can find some joy in that, then it is fine. I just find these discussions amusing. Ask a pack of addicts about the drug that is killing or harming them and you get some very creative responses and special pleading! Am I the only one who finds that aspect of these discussions amusing?
I guess I can just laugh at myself, as I have said and thought many of the comments already posted here. It's textbook classic, and I was amused to find it in myself as well.
I'm a piper! I have a nice collection of both pipes and tobacco. But I don't kid myself about the true motivation behind all of this.
Simply achieving longevity isn't a prize. My grandfather lived a long time and smoked cigarettes until he died. He was a slim guy, had great genes, and lived a "full" life. Most addicts looking to justify it would stop there and say 87 years! 87! Can you believe it? He had all of his wits and could move around ok.
But that doesn't mean he didn't have some health issues which were brought on by his addiction that would have been far more pleasant to live without in the remaining few years. For some people, it's all worth it. In those last few years, most people, especially if they're no longer addicted, experience regret.
His son is over 70 now and cycles 20km a day, in-between days of working out. He's an absolute machine and is in peak condition. Far healthier than the majority of people half his age... by a long shot. He'd kick a 20 year old's ass any day. He may also die when he's 87, but his experience will be far different.
And really, that's the point. We love to laugh, poke holes, say "what about Joe?," and do all kinds of other things to avoid the truth. None of us want to end up with a crippling disease that makes the last decade or so of our life shit and we'd do just about anything humanly possible to avoid that, except stop ingesting one of the most highly addictive substances known to man (see what I did there?). But, unfortunately, that's what awaits.
But, such is the life of an addict. Just call it what it is. That's all.