That’s great to hear that you and your sister are doing well. My parents divorced when I was 4, that never really bothered me however, even with two different households I was never at peace. My mother is a vulnerable narcissist who was mentally abusive and my father wasn’t much of one. He never did anything with me and when he married his 3rd wife, who I loved very much, he would use me as an excuse every other weekend to go cheat on her. He’d say he was taking me out for the day, you know to spend time with me but, it was just disguise to go see them, being more than one woman over time. So from the age of 9-14 I had this in my life. I had horrible trust issues. I took two psychology classes in school and began studying psychology on my own for years. I frequently seek the help of a therapist since it aids in my self-care. Recently, I learned of the possibility of seeing a therapist with video
us.calmerry.com/video-chat-therapy/ , which I consider to be much more practical and convenient. I have no regrets regarding my health. From 17 to today (43) I have made amazing leaps in my own mental health. I don’t blame or hate my parents, I don’t talk to my father and very little with my mother but I am happy in my life.