In response to all the comments (all the things):
Bait: I’m assuming that this is referring to me. There is no bait. If a woman wants to be barefoot in a kitchen doing domestic work, I don’t have a problem with that. It’s her choice. Do I think she has made the wrong choice? I don’t know. That is up for her to decide. And the wedding tackle. I wouldn’t haven’t a clue. I’m a lesbian. We do totally different things.
Yes, my post was long, but at least, I didn’t have 5 million double spaces in it. Like someone really needs that much space to make a point of anything.
Don’t Judge a Book by its Cover: Why the hell not? Everybody else is. Hipsters with a beard that ride single speed bicycles. Women with tattoos. Female graduate students who talk too much about romance. Didn’t somebody also respond in a similar manner: “a pissing contest”? Look up phallogocentrism. And you will see what I mean.
Philosophers: These are not actual philosophers. These are people imagining that they philosophers. And what gives them that authority? Their pipes. They think that their pipes signify their legitimacy and authority to discuss matters that belong to the realm of philosophy, metaphysics, etc. The pipe has always symbolized intelligence, wisdom, intuition, rationality, authority, and class with the additional rationalization that if one smokes a pipe then he must possess all of these traits. Therefore, he must have the right, the authority to say whatever he pleases and it is so. They think, “Hell, if Einstein smoked a pipe, then I’m in the same league as him.” No, these cats are not philosophers. Here is a list of philosophers: Michel Foucault, Jacques Lacan, Jacques Derrida, Judith Butler, Donna Haraway, Katherine Hayles, Gloria Anzaldua, bell hooks, Roland Barthes, Pierre Bourdieu, Simone de Beauvoir, Monique Wittig, Luce Irigaray, Elizabeth Grosz, Gayatri Spivak, Sara Ahmed, Gilles Deleuze, Felix Guattari, Jean Baudrillard, Louis Althusser, Claude-Levi Strauss, Julia Kristeva, Carolyn Miller, Eve Sedgwick, Lee Edelman, Jack “Judith” Halberstam, Adrienne Rich, Kenneth Burke, Audre Lorde, James Gee, Walter Ong, etc. Of course, I left out 99.99% of the countless other philosophers since I more towards the French school of thought. However, I highly doubt the individuals who expound so much philosophical prowess to inform the less “educated” masses are on that list. I’m not on the list either. But I do know my way around my theory, and at least, I have enough education and common courtesy to know that it is not nice to talk to others as though you are above them in intellectual station. That’s not my jive. However, if I have to pull out my own cards to legitimize myself in this space, I have no problems in doing so.
Consequences: Lose lots of “cool” pipe-smoker points because a woman should always been seen and not heard, and I didn’t keep my mouth shut. My post is too long. And I tune out to mansplaining. But, hell, I’m just a fuckin’ woman. What the hell do I know….nothing.