I did 13 years the U.S. Army Infantry ( multiple combat deployments) and have spent the last 24 working in a State prison. Violence, unfortunately, has out of necessity become a way of life for me. Not because I look for it or enjoy it, simply due to circumstances and occupational choices. That being said, I never threaten anybody. If the situation warrants it I simply act. Like they say in the joint " Don't talk about it, BE about it". Oh, and I LOVE coffee!