Yes, be careful when you go on that trip with your mates that she gave you “permission” to do.
I came back from one such trip to find she had totally rearranged my bookcases of wine books, cook books, cigar books and wine and spirit magazines and journals so I now have to conduct a search-and-find mission whenever I want to find the relevant tome
And another time when I came back to find she had “trimmed” my carefully tended hedge of bamboo palms. Palms DO NOT grow if they are beheaded