lawdawg, your cat strums the strings of my heart, since I had a much beloved orange tabby, mine perhaps mostly Absynnian loving rain and being water resistant, wonderful animal lost too soon to FIV. But brave and affectionate all the way. Once you learn cat etiquette, most cats are not aloof. They identify strongly to their people and study us in excruciating detail and know more about us than we know about ourselves. My wife's little cat from Long Island was a walk-on addition, probably dropped by the side of the road as a kitten, and our two boys were rescued as kittens out of a drainpipe in a town called Fuqua-Varina, so all rescues. I say the largest lie in the English language is Free Kitten. Our gray Maine Coon looking cat is snoozing beside me on the desk.
+1000 on the "free kitten" issue! I sometimes call our cat the Grand Feline, and "grand" is not a reference to his social rank or level of dignity puf
Also agreed about cat aloofness and etiquette. Like many cats, he definitely keeps to himself at times, but is also very social. You've just got to let them come and go as they please, and they'll get comfortable around you over time.