I don't have an overwhelming amount of wisdom to share, but I do know this: The man makes the pipe, not the other way around.I enjoyed smoking the cob very much, but, vain person that I am, will smoke it only in the confines of the home
I have many "outfits" from western to Inner urban Zoot. I am comfortable wearing them where ever I choose because "I" make them look good - not the other way around. I learned this lesson A long time ago. I never get stares. But I do get a lot of admiration and comments from others that they wish they could wear something similar.
I was in San Diego with my wife. I was wearing an electric blue six piece suit with a blue velvet derby and Stacey Adams electric blue lizard skin shoes. An African American meter cop walks up to us and she says to me, "Honey, mmm, mmm, you make that look goooood!"
It's attitude. It's confidence, and it's knowing you are comfortable in your own skin. It's contagious. Now smoke that cob outside.