Interestingly, I don't mind any of it that we watch. I'm sure it's because I've been desensitized to it, but I don't think it's the end-all, be-all that it doesn't affect me. One of the things that I've found is that I can detach myself from the viewing experience and look at the larger picture (no pun intended) with a critical eye.
*Disclosure - we watch shows ONLY on Netflix/Amazon. We're looking into AcornTV again since they have such a great selection.*
We love Criminal Minds, although trailboss' post
ABOVE hit on some points that bother me; specifically, the Gulfstream and the gas-guzzling SUVs. I'm not against either, but think of where the money comes from to maintain these things... I can suspend my disbelief in Criminal Minds because the unbelievable things aren't so awful as to make me balk at them. Let me give you some examples of other crime shows that I can only watch one episode of before my suspension of disbelief is destroyed.
Numb3rs- A team of FBI agents are so bad at their jobs that they have to enlist a math genius to come up with some algorithm to solve the case of the week. Mmm-hmm.
Bones- A world-renowned forensic anthropologist helps the FBI solve murders, except that she follows the FBI agent to every scene and interrogation in addition to shooting a gun. Yeah. OK.
Crossing Jordan- A medical examiner in Boston goes around town following leads with her cop friend and has fired a gun more times that any M.E. probably ever have. (Don't get me wrong. We love Jordan and when we first got married, it was one of "our shows" we watched every week together, but I can only watch one episode)
There are more, but I'm going to stop before I ruin someone's favorite show.
Shows we like (aside from Criminal Minds)? Again, trailboss nailed it with the british crime dramas. Finding a gun in those shows (with the exception of Luther) is exceedingly rare. Refreshing, even.
Vera- Love her accent and she's a whip to boot.
Wallander (with Kenneth Branagh) - Excellent series that takes place in Norway. Love it.
Miss Fisher's Mysteries - My wife loves the 1920's style and I like that it takes place in Australia. Miss Fisher is nice to look at and have fun with but I think Dot is the one to marry.
Inspector Lewis/Morse - We like Lewis because Hathaway is a great DS and he is enough like Morse to be an excellent counter to Lewis' non-Oxford-ness. Morse is a little more slow and my wife can't get into it.
Endeavor - Inspector Morse's prequel series. Love it. Far better than the series "Inspector Morse" and they do a nice job showing how Morse got the way he did.
Midsommer Murders - I like it because it's good fun even if it seems like most of Midsommer county's residents would either be in jail or dead by now.
Murdoch Mysteries - I dig it but the wife isn't a fan. Guess she's not down with Canadian police.
Poirot/Miss Marple - Suchet is THE ONLY Poirot in my book just like Joan Hickson is THE ONLY Miss Marple. Can't go wrong with the Queen of Crime.
There are others but those are the real stand-outs.
Anyway. Sorry to hijack the thread.
-Jason