I've tried pipes over the years, but never got past the tongue bite, so gave up before I really started.
I've taken it back up, about 6 or 7 week ago. I've read a plethora of articles, reviews, and forum posts. I've asked a fair amount of questions, and even watched quite a few YouTube vids.
Overall, I like aros, but they do tend to be tongue biters. The key to avoid tongue bite is to go slow. Since I've started pipes again, I can honestly say I haven't had a single case of tongue bite, knock on wood.
I live in the California desert and temps have been 100+ since mid May, so I only smoke early in the morning and dusk into night when its cooler.
My first picks were a very flavorful aro, two english blends, a VaPer and PS Highland Whiskey. Next I bought PS Luxury Navy Flake, followed those with two black Cavendish blends, followed by Peterson Irish Dew and C&D Black Frigate.
The aro I mentioned was like smoking fruit punch that had been reduced to a syrup. Very "flavorful".
The Black Frigate, I've only had one bowl, was like smoking potpourri. Spicy, and very floral. I'll have to acquire a taste for it, in small doses, much like I've come to love a good single malt, single barrel, and a good stout ?.
Today, I ordered four Virginia blends, to expand my variety. In a week or two, it'll be burleys.
I jar everything in 8oz mason jars, so anything I don't take an immediate liking to, I can revisit down the road.
You've said it yourself, there's so many choices, and it's hard to get a feel on where to even start, so like so many others have said, try a little of everything and you're bound to hit on some that just say "order more" ?.
Happy piping, and Cheers!