Sorry you choose to feel that way! I’m sharing my observations of having lived in rural, suburban, and urban areas that seem to run counter to your experience. But the rural vs urban culture debate is tired and old lol.
As for who agrees with my opinions, meh lol. We’re all entitled to them regardless of whether we agree or not.
I’ve lived in all 3 environments as well. Of course I was generalizing, but in general it is my experience in the suburbs and the city that is not even a sentiment in most people’s mind in these locales. They aren’t doing it as a rude gesture.
I am not trying to pit rural vs. urban, but using them as equivalents for where the “hat rule” does and doesn’t apply. Stereotypes exist for a reason. In small towns the hats are almost always off. I just was saying to the crowd here that they shouldn’t assume an indoor hat-wearer is being rude intentionally. And as a free thinker we must ask ourselves “Why is this rude?” My brain replies “I can’t find anything intrinsically rude about it.” It’s just what I was told growing up.
I’m more traditional and don’t wear them indoors, though I occasionally will wear a beanie or sports hat in casual environments like the grocery or a casual restaurant.
I sure ain’t tipping my hat, or removing it when speaking to women like I’m Michael Landon…you’d get laughed out of town where I live (suburbs).
I don’t around apologizing all over the place as I’m not personally easily offended…but if you read my comment I certainly didn’t mean to offend anyone by mentioning the term “rural”…to me it doesn’t have any type of negative connotation at all. My response was referenced of a comment I believe comparing both urban to rural behaviors. In addition, I don’t find manners are strictly relatable to geographic region of the country either…well some are.
So, if you’re offended unintentionally by my response…MEA CULPA! …and yes hats are cool.
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he was replying to me, here is my reply^
and in church I've seen young men wearing stupid looking baseball caps etc.
Hell no, this seems like something nobody should do IMO, but perhaps I am being too old-fashioned