Speak for yourselves men. I believe I;m missing a filter. I never mince words. either with friends and family or, strangers. Do not ask for my opinion unless you are prepared to hear the unvarnished truth as I see it as politely as possible. I was raised that way and never found a reason to change. I will try to spare peoples' feelings, depending on the subject (usually something frivolous) but, if you ask me how your pipe looks, you'll get my opinion. Ask me about your brand, spanking new car. I'll respect your askign for my input and answer candidly. I wish more people reasted in the same manner. Too much dancing around simply makes for misunderstandings and/or fake friendships. I've no time for that and will never suffer fools willingly.