This original question has drifted all over the place. Anyway, while I keep a Bic for emergencies, I've discovered the Thunderbird butane insert for Zippo lighters. It allows me to enjoy the esthetics on my Zippo as well and effectively lighting the bowl.
I get interesting reactions when smoking in my parked car, waiting for the old lady to finish shopping. (I can't stand grocery shopping for physical and tempermental reasons.) The smoke drifts out the open window, and people--for some reason always black--cry out something like, "Mmm-ummm. That smell's great! Reminds me of my grandpa!" Now if I can just get a white girl to say something besides "Don't you know you're polluting the air?!" But consider this, people: we pipers have forums all over the place. Where are cigarette forums?
Sometime remind me what my failsafe girl magnet was--I wish I took more advantage of it when I was younger, but it doesn't relate to pipe smoking.