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jvnshr

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One day he said he was going hunting overseas and no one ever saw him again.

We have another similar story in my family. Apparently when I was a toddler, my dad had a friend who was a government inspector. In USSR those inspectors were well-respected people and they were earning really well. He invited my dad to different restaurants every day, they just spent their days drinking and having fun. Even once they visited a very popular hotel restaurant and as he entered there he directly went to the famous jazz player, gave him some money and asked him not to play because his music was disturbing him. Long story short, my mom got tired of this and when that friend visited our house to pick up my dad, my mom told him how reckless he was. The guy apologized, left the house and disappeared.
 

coyja

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Feb 10, 2018
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My Uncle raised me like his own kid and I lost him this August. He was in ICU for 5 weeks and they only allowed a single person in to see him in any given day (so my Aunt or cousin). My son (2 yrs old) is named after him, and I'm very glad he was around for them to meet each other.
That was a really hard loss.

A year ago also lost my other uncle, that I wasn't super close with but always smoked a pipe, so he is my main prototype for a pipe smoker. In the last couple years I unfortunately had to block him due to earning a 'crazy political uncle' title by constantly posting nutty conspiracy and offensive/racist things.
But, still my uncle and I'm sad we didn't patch things up before the end.
 

gamzultovah

Lifer
Aug 4, 2019
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Whenever anyone asks me why I’m such a nice guy, I always say it’s because of my uncle Mike; and whenever anyone asks me why I’m such an ass, I always say it’s because of my uncle Mike. (It’s complicated at best.)

He passed away at 55 years of age and I’m now 55 myself. I miss him often, and I always find myself gravitating back to my old neighbor when I’m in the area just to pick up the feeling of when he was alive. I didn’t get to say goodbye, but I’m certain that one day I’ll get to say hello again. I’m sorry for your pending loss.
 

Sloopjohnbee

Lifer
May 12, 2019
1,289
2,287
Atlantic Coast USA
My Uncle raised me like his own kid and I lost him this August. He was in ICU for 5 weeks and they only allowed a single person in to see him in any given day (so my Aunt or cousin). My son (2 yrs old) is named after him, and I'm very glad he was around for them to meet each other.
That was a really hard loss.

A year ago also lost my other uncle, that I wasn't super close with but always smoked a pipe, so he is my main prototype for a pipe smoker. In the last couple years I unfortunately had to block him due to earning a 'crazy political uncle' title by constantly posting nutty conspiracy and offensive/racist things.
But, still my uncle and I'm sad we didn't patch things up before the end.
block him?
 

beefeater33

Lifer
Apr 14, 2014
4,266
6,836
Central Ohio
Thanks for all the well-wishes fellas!..............
I feel like I've got family here..............
I should have given a bit more info, but was for lack of words last night-
My relationship with my uncle is similar to Ashdigger's.

My uncle always said there is ONLY one beer, and that was Budweiser, he always had a fridge full of it, and would let me have one once in a while, even if I was only 14 or so......... :)
He always had Yukon Jack and Wild Turkey on the shelf, told me as a young-in- "you'll like that Yukon jack better than the Wild Turkey........"

He was a helluva rifleman......... He had a huge dirtpile put in his backyard (he lived in a woods), about 150 yards from his house. We shot a lot from his back porch, but in the past few years, when I visited, I'd see his rifles(he loved SAKO's, wildcat cartridges), earmuffs, and sandbags right at the table by the window facing his target- he'd shoot right from his house! I can guarantee there's at least 1500 pounds of lead in that backstop........ Always cool to see an 80 year old man driving tacks from his kitchen table.!

He collected Wild Turkey decanters, those ceramic ones from the '70's......... he had them all on a huge shelf, seals intact.

He loved Ruger revolvers too........... had about 40 of them, most of them new in the box............

As I said we were poor pig farmers, living day to day. Uncle Larry had some FAST Ski-doo snowmobiles. Back in 1981 or 1982, we had a bit of a blizzard in Ohio, school was cancelled for the week. Uncle brought out his sleds and said "Have FUN, don't Fuck-em up!"........... I was 14 years old at the time, and man, that was fun, bustin' drifts 10' high on those sleds!.........

He was the hardest working man I've ever met, but he played just as hard.....

Born in 1937, started his business building custom homes in 1961....... did well for himself. He got some local commercial jobs too....... the Fire department addition, the local paper printing building, and numerous, somewhat upscale houses. many of his customers built multiple homes over the years.

He pretty much put me through college. I worked on his crew in the summers, starting as laborer, working my way up to trim carpenter. He'd start you doing trim in the GARAGE............ if it was good enough, he'd put you on closets, then basements, then you was good to go....... I never made it to basements....... LOL!

He sold me his Colt 45 National Match Gold Cup, 1976 model, brand new in the box for $350........... on one condition- "Don't ever shoot it!"............ He gave me the box of shells he purchased with it too. I've handled this gun 100's of times, and let me tell you, "I want to shoot it!"

He GAVE me a fair share of guns too, several Belgium made Brownings, and some old Winchester 22's.

ALWAYS owned Chevy's, ALWAYS had John Deere tractors.............

Well, I've rambled on long enough.......... thanks again fellas, for the ears to hear my venting...... and puttin' up with my postings( been drinking more than usual........ ?, blame it on the Covid)

Y'all are like family to me, and I appreciate it more than you'll ever know! (This helped me so much, just getting it off my chest)

Happy & Merry!-

-Beef
 

musicman

Lifer
Nov 12, 2019
1,119
6,058
Cincinnati, OH
Truly sorry to hear this, Beef. Just terrible to be going through this at this particular point in our history, as well.

I grew up pretty far from the extended family, but I do have some great memories from our trips down south, especially when we visited my uncle's camp on a Bayou in the Atchafalaya River Basin in Louisiana, accessible only by boat. Fishing for catfish from the dock and heading out to check shrimp traps and crab pots with the old Cajun who lived across the Bayou were particular highlights. Some of the best memories of my youth, really.

And keep rambling! I love reading stories like what you just posted. Kind of amazing the crazy shit that we and our uncles got away with when mom wasn't looking!
 

ashdigger

Lifer
Jul 30, 2016
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Vegas Baby!!!
Thanks for all the well-wishes fellas!..............
I feel like I've got family here..............
I should have given a bit more info, but was for lack of words last night-
My relationship with my uncle is similar to Ashdigger's.

My uncle always said there is ONLY one beer, and that was Budweiser, he always had a fridge full of it, and would let me have one once in a while, even if I was only 14 or so......... :)
He always had Yukon Jack and Wild Turkey on the shelf, told me as a young-in- "you'll like that Yukon jack better than the Wild Turkey........"

He was a helluva rifleman......... He had a huge dirtpile put in his backyard (he lived in a woods), about 150 yards from his house. We shot a lot from his back porch, but in the past few years, when I visited, I'd see his rifles(he loved SAKO's, wildcat cartridges), earmuffs, and sandbags right at the table by the window facing his target- he'd shoot right from his house! I can guarantee there's at least 1500 pounds of lead in that backstop........ Always cool to see an 80 year old man driving tacks from his kitchen table.!

He collected Wild Turkey decanters, those ceramic ones from the '70's......... he had them all on a huge shelf, seals intact.

He loved Ruger revolvers too........... had about 40 of them, most of them new in the box............

As I said we were poor pig farmers, living day to day. Uncle Larry had some FAST Ski-doo snowmobiles. Back in 1981 or 1982, we had a bit of a blizzard in Ohio, school was cancelled for the week. Uncle brought out his sleds and said "Have FUN, don't Fuck-em up!"........... I was 14 years old at the time, and man, that was fun, bustin' drifts 10' high on those sleds!.........

He was the hardest working man I've ever met, but he played just as hard.....

Born in 1937, started his business building custom homes in 1961....... did well for himself. He got some local commercial jobs too....... the Fire department addition, the local paper printing building, and numerous, somewhat upscale houses. many of his customers built multiple homes over the years.

He pretty much put me through college. I worked on his crew in the summers, starting as laborer, working my way up to trim carpenter. He'd start you doing trim in the GARAGE............ if it was good enough, he'd put you on closets, then basements, then you was good to go....... I never made it to basements....... LOL!

He sold me his Colt 45 National Match Gold Cup, 1976 model, brand new in the box for $350........... on one condition- "Don't ever shoot it!"............ He gave me the box of shells he purchased with it too. I've handled this gun 100's of times, and let me tell you, "I want to shoot it!"

He GAVE me a fair share of guns too, several Belgium made Brownings, and some old Winchester 22's.

ALWAYS owned Chevy's, ALWAYS had John Deere tractors.............

Well, I've rambled on long enough.......... thanks again fellas, for the ears to hear my venting...... and puttin' up with my postings( been drinking more than usual........ ?, blame it on the Covid)

Y'all are like family to me, and I appreciate it more than you'll ever know! (This helped me so much, just getting it off my chest)

Happy & Merry!-

-Beef
Those are the memories. I had a flood of those similar to yours. Hold those tight.

You aren’t rambling. You are expressing love.
 

mau1

Lifer
Jan 5, 2018
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Ontario, Canada
Your uncle sounds like a man who lived his life the way he wanted to. You've got great memories of him and as long as you are alive, he's alive through you. You honour him and us by sharing your story with us. Like many of his generation, I believe he would be pleased in a humble way with your eulogy, and proud of you. Keep those good memories close, beefeater, they will warm you in future years. My condolences. Mau.
 
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