... before I post anything, I give much thought into how it might possibly get twisted around to the point where the thread is closed down.
Once I’m sure it’s a reasonably safe subject, I go ahead and type it up….
I'm sort-of the opposite.
A question arises in my mind so I search the forums and if I'm not satisfied with the things I learn, or I'd like to have a more up-to-date conversation, I just start a post; It may take off and it may not...
It usually leads to some interesting conversation, which is better than just reading through forum history. More often than not, some info is repeated from the past but new interesting info and socializing happen with no shutdown.
Occasionally someone makes some jab at me for posting something a little dumb (which I do) and the admin shuts down the thread before I can respond. That reminds me: I owe the mods a quick "thank you" because 1) I shrug it off a lot easier when I don't have the ability respond, and 2) I have been saved from making a fool of myself on more than one occasion
Like in real life: Not every conversation topic goes anywhere.
I find this forum to be of the most relaxed and civil that I've ever seen.