I'm glad to have my wife at hand, but I spent six years on my own as a widower, and another four when my wife and I weren't in the same state (lots of Jet Blue time). You get to know yourself (good and bad) when you are thrown back on your own company. Both can be good, but for me, being part of a couple is better. As with being alone, being isolated as a couple is a learning curve. Some folks are born to live life solo, and I thought that was true of me in my twenties. But this is a unique situation, because the socializing that you can have, single or as a couple, is greatly reduced, even just going to stores or out for a beer. Not the same. However, I do wish the tidy syndrome would set in with me. I do chores and errands all day, but putting things in order seems to evade me.