Like many folks, I had several orders from them with no issue whatsoever. In fact, a lot of them arrived quicker than SP, TP, etc.
And then, looming on the horizon, unseen, unheard, and unannounced, was my 'bad' P&C order...
Timeline of events:
July 3, 2020 - Place order of ONE 'in stock' item (probably my 7th-8th order with them by this time, important for the next line item)
July 4, 2020 - Receive first age verification email
July 4, 2020 - Email P&C customer service asking why I'm all of a sudden receiving an age verification email after several purchases with the same account
July 5, 2020 - No reply
July 6, 2020 - Receive my second age verification email
July 7, 2020 - No reply
July 8, 2020 - No reply
July 9, 2020 - Receive my third age verification email
July 9, 2020 - Receive age verification approval
July 10, 2020 - August 4, 2020 - Forgot about order, no communication either way
August 5, 2020 - Receive shipping notification
August 5, 2020 - Email P&C customer service/submit contact form on website letting them know the address is incorrect
August 6, 2020 - October 31, 2020 - Forgot about order again, no communication either way, no answer to email or submitted contact form to customer service
October 31, 2020 - Some thread on here reminded me to check on the order, saw it had been returned to sender and delivered back to P&C on 10/9/2020
October 31, 2020 - Submitted another contact form on the website, sent another email to customer service about the order, what was going on, why I was getting no contact, what was the outcome going to be, etc.
November 1, 2020 - November 11, 2020 - Forgot again, no contact either way, no reply to any of the emails or contact form submissions I'd made in the last four months
November 12, 2020 - Finally decided to call after hearing about the long wait times on hold to speak with someone, got through to someone, she said her system showed that the order had shipped but had never been returned to the sender and said they would have to file a report and investigate to figure out where it went. I directed her to the UPS tracking page that was linked to the tracking number, some pretty serious and in depth detective work on my behalf, and then she agreed to refund the original purchase price.
November 13, 2020 - November 19, 2020 - No communication either way.
November 20, 2020 - Received pending refund notification from PayPal indicating several days to clear
November 21, 2020 - November 22, 2020 - No activity
November 23, 2020 - Refund cleared checking account
I understand that things can happen that cause unforeseen delays, erroneous shipments, etc. I'm not even mad about it. What I can't understand is when a company makes no attempt to contact a customer in these situations. Why did I never receive any type of email letting me know that the 'in stock' item was going to take longer to ship than usual? Why didn't I receive an answer to ANY of the emails I sent? Why didn't I receive a reply to ANY of the contact forms I submitted on their website? To be fair, I wasn't a thorn in their side about it, so it's not like I was an irate customer commanding all of their attention; however, I assumed that I would have received a response from any of those attempts. My mind is (obviously) set up to where when I send them a comment, I completely forget about it assuming I'll eventually get a reply that will be the next step in the process.
I won't shop with them anymore. Like I said, I'm fine with errors and mistakes. No one is impervious to those. But what I can't handle is the complete lack of regard for a customer demonstrated by an absolute failure to provide any communication throughout this entire process.