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scrapyardape

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zack24

Lifer
May 11, 2013
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I wish I could have participated in this last night, but I was under the kitchen sink engaged in the most manly of arts- replacing a disposal and snaking the drain....

 

javajunkie

Starting to Get Obsessed
Feb 26, 2013
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Speaking well but plainly. Most people who can speak well speak in circles, and many of the rest just cannot or choose not to speak well at all.

 

pipeherman

Starting to Get Obsessed
Sep 13, 2013
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I would add pipe smoking and pipe maintenance as a lost manly art.

You should see the disgusting abysmal condition of some of my pipes, it brings shame to me and my Dynasty! i'm lazy.
Biggest lost manly art? Hands down, treating your lady like a lady!

By treating the lady like a lady, you mean opening the kitchen door, and giving directions to the sink?
Sorry, but I can't think of anything less manly than talking about "what's manly?"
I'm not very manly. Afraid of heights and everything. Also not very good at any labour intensive work, tried to build myself a pipe rack. Instead gave myself a thumb blister, then I gave up. :crying:

 

mso489

Lifer
Feb 21, 2013
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A friend used to teach a course titled "Being Human in the Twentieth (it would now be Twenty First) Century.

It was using the arts and humanities to reconnect with our human-ness against a background of change,

turmoil, technology, and commercial manipulation, men and women. I thought that was an inspired effort.
However, I do like to wear a bow tie occasionally, and cufflinks. All boys, all kids, should be run through

the initiation of the safe and responsible use of fire and folding knives and saving, spending and investing

money. I would assert that being gentle, physically and emotionally, is a masculine trait, not just "getting

in touch with our feminine side," but part of the male psyche too. The old straw about, you have to be

strong to be gentle, which is true.

 

plateauguy

Lifer
Mar 19, 2013
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Farting.
If done right it is not only satisfying, but can be blamed on someone you are standing next to when you look at them and exclaim, "Whoa, Big Boy!"
I personally try to select someone that I don't care for to stand by, therefore optimizing the experience. My dog dog taught me this trick.

 
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Sorry, but I can't think of anything less manly than talking about "what's manly?"
Love the use of irony there.
Anyway, I'm glad we're no longer manly. According to some of the posts in this thread, until the last couple of decades all men were abusive, chauvinistic, moronic, braggarts? It's so nice to be an enlightened man.
...Oh no! I just talked about manliness...that must mean I'm not a man anymore. Well crap, better go tell the wife. :wink:

 

woodsroad

Lifer
Oct 10, 2013
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So weep not for these lost arts! Though they may kindle nostalgia for the days of our grandparents, we are still people, and we practice many new arts to replace the old.
But what happens when these "arts", some of which we once relied upon for survival, are supplanted by practices that are not under our control? I'm thinking of hunting being replaced by meat farming, map reading, being replaced by GPS etc. What happens when the new systems fail or those who control them use them for nefarious purposes? Many of the "manly arts" are really just a simple manifestation of self-sufficiency.
I suppose, though, that self-sufficiency is now often viewed as foolishness, selfishness, racism or inequality.

 

jpberg

Lifer
Aug 30, 2011
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Anyway, I'm glad we're no longer manly. According to some of the posts in this thread, until the last couple of decades all men were abusive, chauvinistic, moronic, braggarts? It's so nice to be an enlightened man.
I just do what Alan Alda and Gloria Steinem tell me to do. Is that wrong?

 

mso489

Lifer
Feb 21, 2013
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Go with Gloria and Alan in all cases and you'll look disgruntled and

talk through your nose. Well, they're not my favorite personalities

although they are sometimes good on issues, and sometimes not.

 

lostandfound

Part of the Furniture Now
Sep 30, 2011
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Fill in the blank. "I cannot think of anything MORE manly than _______". One gaining control over one's wild-ass misbehaving children with one's cold hard Stare of Death. Your guys' dads ever give you that look? If you can't instill fear in the hearts of children with a single glance, well, may God help you.

 

pipeherman

Starting to Get Obsessed
Sep 13, 2013
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In relation to Mso8's comment of emotion, made me think of the great Oscar Wilde's quote "A gentleman is one who never hurts anyone's feelings unintentionally." Certainly something to live by. :twisted:

 

houndstooth

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Nov 28, 2013
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Well said, woodsroad.
But what happens when these "arts", some of which we once relied upon for survival, are supplanted by practices that are not under our control? I'm thinking of hunting being replaced by meat farming, map reading, being replaced by GPS etc. What happens when the new systems fail or those who control them use them for nefarious purposes? Many of the "manly arts" are really just a simple manifestation of self-sufficiency.

 
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