These are what I use, they work a charm!In my experience there's no replacement for physical removal. I personally use a lighter and a wet paper towel to remove oxidation but if you have no experience shaping or reshaping stems with heat, you may do more damage than good.
Prior to my lighter technique, I used these.
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If just beginning with oxidation removal, even fine sandpaper and micro mesh can ruin the shape of a stem.