Moving from a butane Zippo to wooden matches (Strike on Box) was the secret sauce for me. After a few weeks, I discovered that I had banished tongue bite. With the lighter flame, I was scorching my tobacco. With the match, I was only getting it smoldering.
At first, I was going thru 20 matches per bowl. But, after a few months, I became pretty adept. Now I can light a bowl with a match outdoors with a breeze.
I still bring a lighter for really windy days, but 99% of my bowls are match lit. I do have glass pipe ashtrays on both porches, in the sunroom and garage. Sometimes I forget to dump them, which is a sure fire way to anger Mrs. Jones.
Practice makes perfect with the match. I did score several boxes of "Strike Anywhere" matches down here at a old time hardware store.