Hi, Mr. November, and welcome to the forum. We're glad you're here, in by the end of the day, you should have quite a few responses to your query. First of all, since you didn't say what pipe and tobacco you're smoking, let me say that any pipe and any tobacco can, with the right technique, provide an acceptable smoke. You don't need to spend a fortune, but let's say that laying out a few dollars for a quality pipe and tobacco will help.
Yes, smoking too fast will contribute to tongue bite. So will tobacco that is too moist. It produces steam which will bite like hell when it hits your tongue. Let me give you a few rules that I provide to every new smoker.
Your tobacco should be a LOT drier than you think it should be. I'd say getting close to the crinkly stage.
Your tobacco should be packed a lot looser than you think it should be. use gravity feed, and tamp LOOSELY.
Your pipe should be smoked a LOT slower than you think it should be. SIP, don't puff. And tamp LIGHTLY before you relight the pipe. If the walls of your pipe feel too hot, put it down, let it go out, wait a few minutes, then tamp lightly and relight. I always say that if you place the bowl against a baby's skin, the baby should smile at the pleasant warmth. If the baby screams, then you deserve to have your tongue bitten!
Keep your ash in the bowl. It will help keep the pipe cooler. While some will disagree onthis, I dump my ash only when I've reached the bottom of the bowl, by which I mean smoke the entire pipe down to the bottom. However, if it starts to develop a strong and unpleasant taste, it's time to dump. We call this "dottle." Let the pipe rest, empty it, clean it out, and let it rest for a while.
If you only have one pipe, allow it to rest at least a few hours before you smoke it again. By the way, a Missouri Meerschaum, a good brand of corn cob pipe, will allow you to purchase several excellent smoking pipes for a reasonable cash outlay. Don't look down at the cob. It doesn't denote a junk pipe.
Try and use a cool, soft flame for lighting your pipe. Here, in ascending order of temperature, are acceptable pipe lighting methods:
beeswax impregnated hemp string
wooden matches
liquid fuel lighter (i.e., the Zippo.)
Butane fuel lighter. This burns about 1000 degrees celsius hotter than a Zippo, so be careful.
Never, ever use a torch lighter to light your pipe. Even though it's a butane device, it burns 1000 degrees Celsius hotter than the regular butane.
When you light, draw the SOFT flame lightly into the pipe, then withdraw it to avoid scorching the wood.
This is a good place to start. There are some good briar pipes to be had for reasonable prices, as well as excellent tobaccos, and we'll cover those bases a bit later on.
Please don't hesitate to PM me for any further advice I can offer.