Well, some months into it and I feel more confident/competent. Using the breath method and a having a good feel for the packing density, I am able to keep the blend lit for 3/4 of the bowl, all the while smoking relatively cool (for aromatics and Va blends) and being able to taste the tobacco.Only 6 times, still doing well. Don't worry about the relights.
But I still struggle in the last third or quarter when the ash and the moisture build up. I usually know the ash off and relight. But in this phase I need to relight some 2 or 3 times before I call it a smoke and stop.