Sometimes it is best to just keep your happy memories of how the shop was in better times and move along. Every visit from this point on will likely just add to the heartbreak.
One of the ones I love is.... A business will open and be successful and then a few months latter two or three almost identical businesses will open and all of them will close shortly.Next time someone finds themselves in a store where the owner doesn't seem to know what the hell they're doing, ask them what got them into that situation. "Why did you buy a ----- business?" Be genuinely curious. Try not to come across as an a$$hole. Just try to get them to tell you why.
The guy I mentioned above who started the healthfood store is like 300 lbs. I am tempted to march over there and ask him. It baffles me, things like this.
This, and all of the people who start businesses who have no idea what all is involved. My neighborhood is called an "Old Town." Down here we have these quaint little store fronts with businesses constantly opening and closing. People getting into a mess because they just had no clue. For example to get utilities for a business runs 3X's more for a business. Water, electricity, cable, internet, phone, anything that you have to utilize for business purposes cost way more. That, and advertising. I don't know how many geniuses opened a biz thinking that they could rely on people driving by or walking in. It's just not gonna happen. And, capital. You have to be prepared for going at least 6 months making no money. I think some suggest a few years. If you start stealing from your store to pay your home mortgage, you are headed for that Going Out of Business Sale.
What makes these people think that just having enough money to get the doors open is enough? Do they not teach business skills in school?
My mother and her husband did that. They took part of their retirement to buy a meat and three sort of place. They had a hang out where they would set and drink coffee all day and smoke cigarettes. When the business told them that they were about to close, my mom wanted to save their hang out. I threw a fit, but parents... they never listen. They let their friends hang out all day drinking free coffee and smoking till they also lost their money. You can't make money off of free loaders. A coffee house only works if you sell each cup of coffee for at least $7. And, even then, I wouldn't encourage people to hang out, using you restroom that cost you 3X's as much to flush as it does at home.Cosmic I really got the sense the old couple had maybe just bought themselves a retirement gig.
All smoke shops have turned into head and vape shops where I live.
True experts would want far more money than those outfits would be willing to pay them.Sadly, I've been in no shortage of established cigar and pipe stores where the Proprietor or Clerks had little to no clue of what they were talking about. And it certainly isn't isolated to pipes and cigars. Lowes and Home Depot started with the concept of having experts at DYI that would be readily available to assist the Homeowner. Now, you have to walk through half the store to find someone to answer a question and you're lucky if they know enough to even tell you which aisle the item you're looking for is located.
I see the odd pipe smoker, one every 5 years or so... I enjoy when people see me smoking in the park, though I don’t do it for attention... -Carry the torch and burn your pipe brighter thenIf a major city like NYC can’t sustain a single pipe shop I don’t see how there is any future in B&ms anywhere. (There is still Barclay Rex downtown, but I havent been there in years and have no idea how they are doing). Lack of interest, high rents, and a few online mega sellers have put the nail in the coffin. I personally know one person (a mid twenties guy) who smokes a pipe. Everyone else I know thinks its a joke. I haven’t seen a person smoking a pipe in public since I was a kid. Its a niche business with a small and dispersed but dedicated consumer base. Not ripe for a local business.
I went to Barclay Rex a couple of years ago, and they are ok.If a major city like NYC can’t sustain a single pipe shop I don’t see how there is any future in B&ms anywhere. (There is still Barclay Rex downtown, but I havent been there in years and have no idea how they are doing). Lack of interest, high rents, and a few online mega sellers have put the nail in the coffin. I personally know one person (a mid twenties guy) who smokes a pipe. Everyone else I know thinks its a joke. I haven’t seen a person smoking a pipe in public since I was a kid. Its a niche business with a small and dispersed but dedicated consumer base. Not ripe for a local business.
Never heard of it. Where is/was it? Only pipe shops in manhattan I know of are Barclay's downtown and Davidoff on Madison which carries a small collection of pipes. Nat Sherman gone. Barclay's midtown gone.Is Davidson's closed now?
My bad. Of course I meant Davidoff. How's their tobacco supply? When there a few years ago I had the impression that you could get at least some premium blends (of course, for a premium price!)Never heard of it. Where is/was it? Only pipe shops in manhattan I know of are Barclay's downtown and Davidoff on Madison which carries a small collection of pipes. Nat Sherman gone. Barclay's midtown gone.
completely. I'd rather have a straight answer that is "I don't know" then someone talking out their asses. Imagine how many people take their advice and think man these pipes suck.I’ve said many times that I really do like to support nice B&M shops, even if that just means buying a couple ounces of bulk or house blends, matches and pipe cleaners, supplies and such.
I’m okay with not being able to pay double or triple or more for tins for my cellar - I order online for that.
I’m okay not getting expert advice from every person behind the counter in every shop - I know what I want and what I’m seeing within reason bounds.
But it’s just intolerable to have the owners talking out their ass about the products they sell, peddling incorrect rumors about product availability or just making up lies to cover up their lack of knowledge.
Old folks bought the shop and want to do it their way? Okay I guess. I’m not the boss of them, but count me out and I just find it sad to experience the changes from what I’ve gotten used to over the years.
Am I a whiner? Yeah, maybe. I’m okay with that, lol. It’s just the world we’re living in I guess.
Just wish the old folks had picked a different shop to mess up. ?