Generally speaking, blends heavy with Latakia or perique are more offensive to the nostrils of nonsmokers - however, some people LOVE the campfire smell of Latakia, so it’s not always a sure thing.
Burleys can get a little cigarette-y, but many are topped with a cocoa or nut additive that smell very festive, and some people like that.
Virginias are usually pretty well tolerated - they tend to have a sweet and savoury mustiness the next day that is well tolerated.
YMMV, but I personally recommend a simple light Virginia, or a cocoa-y burley blend. A Virginia perique blend that’s not heavy on the perique can be quite nice too.
But like everyone else is saying, nothing is ever a certainty when it comes to matters of taste. What one friend loves, another might loathe. I think the only one I’m somewhat confident about is plain burleys - I’ve yet to meet a non smoker who likes the smell of a blend like Pegasus.
Here’s hoping the employee at your local smoke shop knows his pipe tobacco, because it’s a toughie without knowing what’s available. Theres a broad spectrum within all the blend types I mentioned, and they are certainly not all made equal.
For what it’s worth, I don’t get the nazi vibe from you