dude that sucks!!! most of the time is the thief you invite in that does the stealing or someone you know!! I had my house broken into and the bastard left my room in shatters, took all of my precious belongings and broke my windows with a brick, turned out it was my brothers friend who he invited to watch a football game, when he went to use the bathroom, he was checking out my place and he had planned on how to go by and breaking in my house, when i found out about the person stealing, i confronted his dad, talked to him like a man, and he didn't blame me for wanting to kick his sons butt, i tried to confront his son , but his son would not get out his room to come outside, he was scared, i left it at a loss and dint want to cause a bigger scene at the mans house, and out of respect i shook the mans hand and he understood and apologize for his sons actions and i left it at a loss, 3 years later, he went to jail for burglary and assault, and is in jail for a long time, and to top it off, the thief was my brothers wife's cousin.