All the input in this conversation is awesome. I like the points that many of you have made, however, I feel like every pipe smoker is different. You're going to have older smokers, younger smokers, rich smokers, poor smokers, smart smokers, dumb smokers, etc etc. One can go on and on. I think many factors play a role in how we perceive eachother. What angers or disgusts one smoker may delight another. One may take a simple word of advice about quality of pipes as an attack based on selfish the sender's selfish ego. Again, perception is reality.
I can safely and assuredly speak for my Collegiate Pipe Club, when I say that most of us are on the lower end side of the pipe world. Usually we tend to have skinnier wallets, however, we also have far less education on the pipe world. So we never take offense to pipe smokers telling us about higher end more expensive items, in fact, we love it! It's actually caused many of us to save our money and buy some "higher end" items. If it's done anything, I feel that it's enhanced our experience and broadened our minds.
Still, I do understand where one may take offense. So, it's important to read a situation and know who you're speaking to. Everyone is different and there are MANY types of pipe smokers out there.
All the best,