Coming from cigars as you have I would recommend a tin of Escudo. I would cube cut it and use the three step loading system. After each level check the draw at the final level you should have some resistance,like sucking through a straw. It is the blend that really made me fall in love with the pipe. I know from experience that there is a large learning curve to pipes as compared to cigars. Be patient, read all you can and don't give up. Once it clicks for you a whole new world of tobacco opens up. I think the main problem with aromatics is they can be very wet and goopy and will smoke very wet if not dried for a long time. If you are set on aromatics for the wife, I would get some samples from Boswell's. They are a high quality aromatic and the wife will love the room note. Berry Cobbler, Christmas Cookie, Pennsylvania Dutch Treat and Rasberry Cream are the ones my kids love to smell.