I hear ya, what's strange to me is that the younger dare I say "men" who have come to work for me or to propose an offer seem to completely lack the social skills to read hyper-obvious cues. I had a guy PM me on Instagram when I was running a shop and he worded it as if he wanted to know about the backend of the business in general. I thought well sure I can gab about it to him and maybe give him some insight so I met him for lunch. He, as it turns out wanted to sell me on the idea of a website and he had this whole spiel already memorized and practiced (probably in front of a mirror) and just ran with it though I had a look on my face of total indignation the entire time. He just kept talking and talking, finally, I said I have absolutely no interest in a website as Instagram was already bringing me more business than I could handle and that I thought I was doing him a favor by meeting him in the first place. He just sat there all rabbit in the headlights, mouth agape. I said "Young man, this is the part in the youtube video where you stand up slowly, bow sheepishly, extend a hand, and say I'm sorry Sir it appears I have wasted your time entirely, then you turn around and go. It was the most surreal experience I have ever had with an Internet-turned-face-to-face meeting. Then I noticed the same thing with younger Tradesman, just no social/ business sense at all, and no coping skills with any kind of criticism whatsoever, don't even get me started on ballbusting, I've seen these guys walk off a job site practically in tears at the slightest hint of workplace hazing.
I dunno I guess I'm gonna go outside and yell at a cloud now.