When my pipe club separated from The Briary for a year (Skip just got tired of staying in his shop till 9-10 at night waiting on us to finish up gabbing), we asked a few cigar shops if we could meet there. They were all cool with it, as long as we all bought cigars. What freaking lover of tobacco can't enjoy a good cigar occasionally, right? In talking to them, they had this notion that all pipe tobacco was like a goopy aromatic. I assured the cigar shop guy that we didn't have any women in the group, but I found his notion about pipe tobacco interesting. It's funny when people "assume" or "stereotype" like that, ha ha. I hate it.
But, I've never had a problem smoking my pipes in a cigar lounge. I just buy a fistful of sticks, sometimes opting to smoke the cigar over my pipes anyways.
But, I think that the reason most cigar shops would tell people that they don't allow pipes is because pipesmokers are notoriously penny pinchers. Just look at the majority of posts here about the price of the cheapest tobaccos out there, pipe tobacco, or when someone posts about a Dunhill, people go off on costs of a pipe that just cost a mere few hundred.
Also, another factor may be men choosing to smoke an aromatic inside with the cigar guys, because this seems to be cigar guys' notions... and I can tell you from going to pipe shows and trying to enjoy a straight Virginia or cigar blend with a group of three or more smokers smoking a freaking cherry aromatic in my vicinity. It's awful. It taints my own smoke. And, that cherry smell sticks to my clothes. I can imagine that an aromatic smoked close to a guy smoking a heavenly $20 cigar is obnoxious as hell.
Now, I'm not against aromatic smokers. I will always stick up for the fairer sex, the weaker of the species. I vow to knock the shit out of anyone who picks on an aro smoker. But, come on. Don't smoke that stuff around other smokers.
Skip eventually begged us to come back to the Briary, plus we kept getting into bar brawls with the cigar guys, mopping up the place with greasy tatoo necked grease balls. You know, boys will be boys types of stuff.