the ebay listing clearly stated no returns. as far as I can tell the ebay pictures and the buyers pictures are pretty much the same pipe. It looked like crap in the ebay listing and it still looked like crap in the buyers pictures. sounds like a hell of a lot of work and hassle over $40. if I was the seller and saw what you posted here we would have a problem.I agree the seller handled things wrong, and he should always accept returns if the item is still in as good of shape as when he sold it.
However, that thing looked beat to shit from the pics on the listing so I'm at a loss for how you thought it'd be nicer in person.
But again, all this BS over $40? Too much hassle for the seller. Should just accept the return, be super nice and easy about it, and adjust and update the pictures when it's been returned. You'd be surprised how easy you can make a bad situation good with not hassling your customers when they are trying to return something.
My take as well.It looked like crap in the ebay listing and it still looked like crap in the buyers pictures. sounds like a hell of a lot of work and hassle over $40.
That's the thing about ebay - just because you say "no returns" doesn't mean a thing. That buyer protection or whatever it is always sides with the buyer. My understanding is you are better protected as a seller if you accept returns and stipulate that the buyer pays return shipping and the item must be in the same condition. If that was the case then as soon as the pipe was worked on the deal was sealed as the condition changed.The listing says "no returns", yet you bought it, whined about it to us, whined about it to eBay and forced the seller to take it back.
MY SOP exactly. I've sold a lot of crap...err...fantastic stuff on eBay, and I have a 100% rating, despite several claims against me, all of which I won. I'll always take an item back, I never blame or denigrate the buyer (no matter how much I want to), I will always admit if i overlooked something in writing my descriptions, I always give the buyer the benefit of the doubt and I will not pay for return shipping. With that policy, I have had several negative feedbacks reversed by eBay. But all in all, I've had a very good experience selling there.My understanding is you are better protected as a seller if you accept returns and stipulate that...
Well, in retrospect.....When someone says a pipe...."In person it is absolutely stunning" it does not leave a lot of questions to ask.