Haha, early on at our first house in our small town my wife knocked the 2x10 framing one side of the garage entrance for a loop backing out - needed a couple nails I didn’t have to secure it back in place. Went to the little hardware store and grabbed the two nails I needed. Chuck the owner looked at me sideways and said, “If that’s all you need just take them.” I still have the cute little sack I instantly filled and still haven’t used more than two!Both have their plusses and minuses. A large city offers seemingly endless varieties of cultural influences and cultural crosscurrents. For people who enjoy the vibe and energy nothing can compete. There is a wide range of activities, whether it's clubbing, concerts, and a galaxy of other events. In the San Gabriel Valley there's a wider range of Asian food than you're going to find in NYC, SF or any of the other major American cities.
There's also a behavioral edginess that's become more pervasive in the last couple of decades. If you like a faster pace and a lot of variety and possibilities the city is the place to be.
Country offers space and a slower pace, bit also less exposure to a wider world. I'm enjoying an environment where people stop for a pedestrian crossing the street rather than speeding up to cross the intersection before said pedestrian can step off the curb. My local ACE hardware retains the service and variety of the hardware stores I remember from decades ago when if you only needed a couple of nails you could buy them, rather than being forced to buy a large box of them. The staff is immensely helpful. Reminds me of Los Angeles before it failed into an international success.
My dear friend Romaso. This is my sister-in-law. She is beautiful, isn't she? She's single, she was in the military for many years, now she's a yoga teacher. The blonde is my wife. Me and my father-in-law, I think this picture of my father-in-law and I would be from 2017.Hey John, I thought your wife was blonde? Didn't I see you with a blonde in prior pictures? Never mind, best you don't answer that...
I have to concur.I've lived out in the country before. I loved it! There is a freedom in being able to stretch your arms that is hard to explain. The most beautiful landscapes with the most friendly people as a general rule. But there's not a lot of options for social life. And those services might be harder to come by. Oddly, the biggest PITA in living in the country was the overall friendliness of the people. Go away, Sam. I don't want to chat with you right now, I'm not getting into what's bothering me with you.
That puts me firmly in either a town or suburb. Yeah, it's a compromise, but a very good one. I can go 45 minutes east and have museums and concerts and surgeries until my heart is content. I can go 45 minutes the other way and be in God's country, mountains with farms nestled in the valleys. People are friendly when I want them to be but leave me alone otherwise. Not perfect, but close enough.