All the above!
I lived in NYC ten years and loved it. SF about the same and it was good. Now I wouldn't touch either one with a ten foot pole. Well, OK, for a free apt in River House I live there for another year or two. or
Lived country growing up, and as recently as ten years ago on an almond orchard. Raised kid in Suburbia.
Now, not really suburbia, but a quiet tree filled place in Monterey County.