Working an odd shift, dipping but just want a pipe full of lane iq or Mississippi river just getting by,but this sucks!
Everyone goes through this.....this is just cheaper than therapy....just putting out thoughts ..this is new for me...like it is for everyoneSorry, nothing any of us can do to ease your discomfort.
Does doing so solve your problems? Frustrations?sometimes it is nice to put all your problems and frustration out there and just vent
No fight from me. Just offering up a bit of empathy. Maybe even a solution or to for your angst. I'm not one to vent to folks I'm not intimate with, certainly not with relative strangers. Seems a terrible waste of emotions. So, I'll leave you to your woes.Dude ,,I am not here to fight with you..

Congratulations on your retirement.Just before retirement
I feel ya man. My grandpa who took care of me and my brothers when my dad passed when I was 9 is 75 now. He literally saved us and now I have to watch him get old. Gives me anxiety sometimes but I hope he lives to 150.Right now getting by with some lane iq....took the parents out for dinner, praying they are doing better than I know they are.....health problems sucks and getting older does to...we all do but it really hurts to see your love ones suffer and get older
Yes, it does. My father passed and my mother is 91. I'm grateful every day she's still with us. I do what ever I can for her and try to be a good son with gratitude every time I'm with her or speak to her on the phone.it really hurts to see your love ones suffer and get older
Dude ,,I am not here to fight with you...we all are here..let's just get along....empathy is nice....it is expected from people you know or associated with but sometimes it is nice to put all your problems and frustration out there
I know you do but it is nice to commiserate and see if I am doing everything that I can do......there are things out of my control but I want to be there......and just do good..I know just live your life but it is hard to do when one is endingI'm half a world away! What could I possibly do to address your plight? Are you simply asking for sympathy. Can't give it. A little empathy possibly but, smoking is your choice. You'll have to cope on your own.
And, yes I care only about family and couple of close friends. I expect everyone else to cope the best way they can.
I've always lived in the moment. Eat, drink, and be merry for tomorrow you may die.Right now? We very seldom live "right now", anything but. I do a lot more of it nowadays and you know, it's ok. Pipe smoking helps, when your favourite flavours are kicking in and wha-hey, the enjoyment of the moment, the past and the future are on hold. Feels good, right there and then.
I was watching one of my dogs years ago. I dawned on me that all animals but man live in the moment. I learned a lot from my dogs over the years but, that was the singular, most important thing any of them taught me. Of course I lay out plans but, not one of them is ever etched in stone. I live mostly in the moment, happily. More so as I age.I've always lived in the moment.
After decades of following orders and keeping a strict schedule, in 2020 I changed everything.I was watching one of my dogs years ago. I dawned on me that all animals but man live in the moment. I learned a lot from my dogs over the years but, that was the singular, most important thing any of them taught me. Of course I lay out plans but, not one of them is ever etched in stone. I live mostly in the moment, happily. More so as I age.
We just do the best and hope it is enough....but it is nice to commiserate and share frustration even though I don't give out enough info.I was watching one of my dogs years ago. I dawned on me that all animals but man live in the moment. I learned a lot from my dogs over the years but, that was the singular, most important thing any of them taught me. Of course I lay out plans but, not one of them is ever etched in stone. I live mostly in the moment, happily. More so as I age.
You remind me of my uncle's....who keeps things to themselves who I love but they are so stubborn who don't want to let anyone in and care about them even though they want it.....and don't know that there is a whole generation my time or younger ,Like my kids who I keep telling stories too memoriesDoes doing so solve your problems? Frustrations?
No fight from me. Just offering up a bit of empathy. Maybe even a solution or to for your angst. I'm not one to vent to folks I'm not intimate with, certainly not with relative strangers. Seems a terrible waste of emotions. So, I'll leave you to your woes.![]()
