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Rossi320

Part of the Furniture Now
Jul 4, 2023
599
936
Northumberland county, pa
Right now getting by with some lane iq....took the parents out for dinner, praying they are doing better than I know they are.....health problems sucks and getting older does to...we all do but it really hurts to see your love ones suffer and get older
 
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warren

Lifer
Sep 13, 2013
12,883
20,506
Foothills of the Chugach Range, AK
I'm half a world away! What could I possibly do to address your plight? Are you simply asking for sympathy. Can't give it. A little empathy possibly but, smoking is your choice. You'll have to cope on your own.

And, yes I care only about family and couple of close friends. I expect everyone else to cope the best way they can.
 
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Rossi320

Part of the Furniture Now
Jul 4, 2023
599
936
Northumberland county, pa
Dude ,,I am not here to fight with you...we all are here..let's just get along....empathy is nice....it is expected from people you know or associated with but sometimes it is nice to put all your problems and frustration out there and just vent
 
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Waning Embers

Captain of the Black Frigate
Nov 12, 2014
47,729
129,053
Just before retirement, I was the only person in the building on my shift. Unless I was around gasoline in the labs or other flammable chemicals, I was smoking.
 

warren

Lifer
Sep 13, 2013
12,883
20,506
Foothills of the Chugach Range, AK
sometimes it is nice to put all your problems and frustration out there and just vent
Does doing so solve your problems? Frustrations?
Dude ,,I am not here to fight with you..
No fight from me. Just offering up a bit of empathy. Maybe even a solution or to for your angst. I'm not one to vent to folks I'm not intimate with, certainly not with relative strangers. Seems a terrible waste of emotions. So, I'll leave you to your woes. :sher:
 

Mez

Might Stick Around
Dec 20, 2024
95
573
30
Ohio
Right now getting by with some lane iq....took the parents out for dinner, praying they are doing better than I know they are.....health problems sucks and getting older does to...we all do but it really hurts to see your love ones suffer and get older
I feel ya man. My grandpa who took care of me and my brothers when my dad passed when I was 9 is 75 now. He literally saved us and now I have to watch him get old. Gives me anxiety sometimes but I hope he lives to 150.
 
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Rossi320

Part of the Furniture Now
Jul 4, 2023
599
936
Northumberland county, pa
Dude ,,I am not here to fight with you...we all are here..let's just get along....empathy is nice....it is expected from people you know or associated with but sometimes it is nice to put all your problems and frustration out there
I'm half a world away! What could I possibly do to address your plight? Are you simply asking for sympathy. Can't give it. A little empathy possibly but, smoking is your choice. You'll have to cope on your own.

And, yes I care only about family and couple of close friends. I expect everyone else to cope the best way they can.
I know you do but it is nice to commiserate and see if I am doing everything that I can do......there are things out of my control but I want to be there......and just do good..I know just live your life but it is hard to do when one is ending
 

BingBong

Lifer
Apr 26, 2024
2,769
12,506
London UK
Right now? We very seldom live "right now", anything but. I do a lot more of it nowadays and you know, it's ok. Pipe smoking helps, when your favourite flavours are kicking in and wha-hey, the enjoyment of the moment, the past and the future are on hold. Feels good, right there and then.
 
Jul 19, 2024
1,327
5,352
Indiana by way of Paris, France
Right now? We very seldom live "right now", anything but. I do a lot more of it nowadays and you know, it's ok. Pipe smoking helps, when your favourite flavours are kicking in and wha-hey, the enjoyment of the moment, the past and the future are on hold. Feels good, right there and then.
I've always lived in the moment. Eat, drink, and be merry for tomorrow you may die.
 
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warren

Lifer
Sep 13, 2013
12,883
20,506
Foothills of the Chugach Range, AK
I've always lived in the moment.
I was watching one of my dogs years ago. I dawned on me that all animals but man live in the moment. I learned a lot from my dogs over the years but, that was the singular, most important thing any of them taught me. Of course I lay out plans but, not one of them is ever etched in stone. I live mostly in the moment, happily. More so as I age.
 

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Lifer
Jul 18, 2023
2,066
11,749
54
Western NY
I was watching one of my dogs years ago. I dawned on me that all animals but man live in the moment. I learned a lot from my dogs over the years but, that was the singular, most important thing any of them taught me. Of course I lay out plans but, not one of them is ever etched in stone. I live mostly in the moment, happily. More so as I age.
After decades of following orders and keeping a strict schedule, in 2020 I changed everything.
I now have absolutely zero schedule...at all....ever.....except when I do.
Call it a working retirement.
I take care of my farm. I work when I want. And I fo what I love daily.
Eight years in the Army, then directly into a daily work schedule got Old very fast. I've found I can do more good working a few hours a day, a few days a week week, than working 15 hours a day, 7 days a week.
I now provide a service nobody else does locally and was very much needed. Four days a month teaching firearms, and 2-3 days a week doing surgeries that otherwise would need to be done by a veterinarian 50 miles away.
My wife and I moved from our 5 bedroom farm house, into a 2 bedroom off grid cabin.
I just wish I did this 25 years ago. :)
 

Rossi320

Part of the Furniture Now
Jul 4, 2023
599
936
Northumberland county, pa
I was watching one of my dogs years ago. I dawned on me that all animals but man live in the moment. I learned a lot from my dogs over the years but, that was the singular, most important thing any of them taught me. Of course I lay out plans but, not one of them is ever etched in stone. I live mostly in the moment, happily. More so as I age.
We just do the best and hope it is enough....but it is nice to commiserate and share frustration even though I don't give out enough info.
 

Rossi320

Part of the Furniture Now
Jul 4, 2023
599
936
Northumberland county, pa
Does doing so solve your problems? Frustrations?

No fight from me. Just offering up a bit of empathy. Maybe even a solution or to for your angst. I'm not one to vent to folks I'm not intimate with, certainly not with relative strangers. Seems a terrible waste of emotions. So, I'll leave you to your woes. :sher:
You remind me of my uncle's....who keeps things to themselves who I love but they are so stubborn who don't want to let anyone in and care about them even though they want it.....and don't know that there is a whole generation my time or younger ,Like my kids who I keep telling stories too memories