Lawrence, I have no idea because I have never paid attention to, or even thought about, the grain having an affect on the heat before this thread. I will start paying attention now though.
I have noticed that sandblasted and rusticated pipes do seem to cool off faster than non-rusticated/sandblasted pipes.
I have also noticed, in my experience anyway, that pipes with a lacquer/varnish/paint finish on them seem to produce more heat than pipes that have a normal stain on them.
I recall reading somewhere that the heat from a pipe should come out of the top of the tobacco chamber like a chimney, not sideways through the walls of the pipe. (I think that I read that in Confessions of a Pipeman by Gary Schrier, but don't quote me on that.)
When I read that it got me thinking. I started wondering if over tamping the ashes, causing them to be compacted too tight, caused too much insulation on the top of the tobacco and wouldn't allow the heat to escape from the top and forcing the heat sideways through the walls.
So I started experimenting a bit during smoking. When I start noticing the walls heating up a bit, I take the poker or spoon part of my pipe tool and gently loosen up the ashes a bit. By doing this, I have begun to notice that the heat starts to come out of the top of the chamber more than it was and the sides of the pipe cool down a bit. This, to me, is another reason why you don't want to tamp too much while smoking. Only tamp when you can not get the tobacco re-lit. And then only tamp, very lightly, to crush the ash to get to the unburnt tobacco.
Another thing that I have noticed that will cause the walls of a pipe to get hotter than normal is an uneven burn. For instance; if the tobacco on the front wall in burning, but the tobacco on the back side or whatever side is not, the front part of the wall is going to feel a lot hotter than the rest of the pipe. When this happens, I let the pipe cool all of the way down, loosen up the ashes and top of the burning tobacco, and re-light making sure that there is an even burn going on.
As I said earlier, I never even thought to consider grain pattern having an effect on the dissipation of the heat. But I will start paying attention to it now and keep notes on what I experience.
Like I said; this is a great thread!